First Posted: 4/22/2013
BOSTON (AP) — Lu Lingzi was passionate about the piano, a daughter who always made her father laugh and a standout statistics student. She was killed by the Boston Marathon blasts two days after acing qualifying exams.
Friends and family on Monday night vowed not to forget the light in their lives that was extinguished too soon.
“You need us to be strong and brave,” Jing Li said of her roommate, killed as she watched the marathon a week ago. “We will keep running to finish the race for you and we will try to realize your unfinished dream.”
Hundreds of people packed a hall at Boston University to say goodbye to Lu, a 23-year-old graduate student. She was one of three people killed in last Monday’s bombings. Gov. Deval Patrick was among the people who showed up to listen to an hour of music and stories about Lu.
Jing told the crowd how when she met Lu in April 2012 they discovered they were both from the northern part of China, both piano lovers and both without boyfriends.
“We believed we were long-lost sisters and could not wait to begin our adventure in Boston,” she said. “I was so grateful that I had such a lovely sister in my life, but I had no idea that this friendship would only last one year.”
Speakers recalled a bubbly young woman who loved dogs and blueberry pancakes and who was also a driven student.
Her father, Lu Jun, thanked everyone for helping the family over the recent dark days before offering a eulogy “to comfort the heavenly soul of my beloved daughter.”
“She was the family’s Shirley Temple, if you will, the little elf and a little jolly girl, bringing everyone in the family ceaseless laughter,” said Lu Jun, who spoke in his native tongue and was followed by an English interpreter.
“She’s gone but our memories of her are very much alive,” her father said. “An ancient Chinese saying says every child is actually a little Buddha that helps their parents mature and grow up.”
Family members accepted gifts from students. They turned and bowed to the crowd at the end of the service.
Eric Kolaczyk, director of the school’s program in statistics, said Lu was an excellent student who passed her qualifying exams with “flying colors” just before her death. He said that though she will never achieve her goal of becoming a financial analyst, a scholarship set up in her name by Boston University will help others meet their goals.
“Lingzi’s potential will instead be fulfilled by many others,” he said.
Associated Press writer Michael Hill authored this report.