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Sunday, March 16, 2003 Page: 10A
How to ease a child’s anxiety
Children might be especially fearful that military action overseas will
result in violence on the home front. Because many saw the Sept. 11
destruction on television, they understand that enemies abroad can cause harm
here.
What parents and teachers can do
Acknowledge children’s feelings. For younger children, telling them you
love them and will keep them safe is often sufficient. For older children,
discuss specifics, such as heightened security in airports and public
buildings.
Don’t deny the seriousness of the situation. Allow children to cry, but
don’t forget to express hope and faith that things will be OK. Older children
might need help clarifying what they believe about war and the country’s role.
Allow them to express their concerns.
Always be honest with children. Share your fears and concerns while
reassuring them that responsible adults are in charge.
Teachers should let parents know if their child is exhibiting stress in
school.
If the child seems obsessed with violent thoughts or images for more than
a few days, talk to a mental health professional.
Parents and other caregivers need to let school personnel know if a family
member is being called to active duty or sent overseas.
Maintain routines to provide stability and security.
Teachers should share information with parents about social/history
lessons and other relevant classroom discussions. This can help parents
understand what their children are learning and can foster discussion at home.
Source: National Association of School Psychologists